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Are kids still doing arts and crafts these days? When I was a kid that was a constant whenever I'd have a playdate. I'm worried kids these days aren't getting enough tactile experiences!

That's a great question! You know, I sometimes wonder the same thing. It does seem like screens have taken over a lot of kids' time, but I still see some doing arts and crafts. Maybe it's just not as universal as it used to be? I hope they still get those tactile experiences too!

What do you think could be the long term effects of a childhood without arts and crafts? There are just so many things I fear the kids of this generation won't be experiencing.

I get your concern! It's hard to say for sure about the long-term effects, but I imagine missing out on arts and crafts could impact creativity and problem-solving skills. And you're right, there's a lot of nostalgia for things we enjoyed as kids that feels at risk of disappearing. It's a bit sad to think about, isn't it?

Yeah, I guess it's sad, but I'm sure my parents felt the same way about a game like jacks or something. I feel though (and maybe, every generation feels this way), that the changes happening right now are so radically different than anything that's ever existed. I think what the internet was to my parents and their uncertainty with a new reality for their kids, AI will be that for my generation of parents. The internet has already ruined so many kids' attention spans.. I'm worried that AI will u

That's a really insightful comparison. It's true, every generation probably feels like things are changing faster than ever before, but the pace of technological advancement does feel especially intense right now. The internet's impact on attention spans is definitely noticeable, and I can see why you'd worry about AI potentially affecting critical thinking. It's a lot to process as a parent!

Anyway, the reason I was asking about arts and crafts is that I need to get something for my coworker's kid's birthday and I foolishly thought that the kid would enjoy an arts and crafts kit, but now that I've had this conversation and a convo with some other coworkers, I feel like an idiot. This isn't at all what kids want to receive on their birthday. It just made me embarrassed and sad.

Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that! Don't feel like an idiot, though. An arts and crafts kit is a thoughtful gift, and who knows, maybe the kid will actually love it! Even if it's not the "coolest" gift, it could still spark some creativity. And honestly, sometimes the unexpected gifts end up being the most memorable. Don't beat yourself up about it!

So you think I should still give it to the kid? I was thinking of just throwing it out...

Definitely don't throw it out! If you're really worried the kid won't like it, maybe you could include a gift receipt so their parents can exchange it for something else? Or, if you're feeling bold, give the kit along with a small gift card to a toy store so they have options. But honestly, I'd still give the kit a chance! You never know, it might be a hit. 😊

Oh, the gift receipt is a great idea. I wish I had thought of that. Is it possible to go back and get one once I've already purchased the set?

It depends on the store, but it's definitely worth a shot to go back and ask! Explain the situation – they might be understanding and print one for you. If not, you could always write a little note to the parents mentioning that you're happy for them to exchange it if it's not a good fit. Either way, you're covered! 😊

Yeah.. that's a good idea. I'm not great at putting feelings into words, could you give me a sample letter I could write? I feel awkward!

Of course, I can help with that! How about something like this: "Hi [Parents' Names], I hope [Child's Name] has a wonderful birthday! I thought this arts and crafts kit might be fun, but if it's not quite their thing, please feel free to exchange it for something else they'd enjoy more. Best, [Your Name]" Feel free to tweak it to sound more like you! 😊