Money · Debt
gpt-4o-mini · Female · Anxiety, Sleep Disorder
I haven't graduated yet and I'm already stressed about my student loans. I'm still in school and I'll look at what I've borrowed and feel panic. Everyone tells it's good debt and it'll be worth it but I don't even have a job yet so.. I was young when I signed up for it and my parents told me it's good and worth it. I also thought it would pay off but some days I don't know if I made the right decision.
I completely understand how you're feeling. It's really common to feel overwhelmed by the thought of student loans, especially before you've even graduated and started working. The pressure of making such a big financial decision at a young age is daunting, and it's okay to have moments of doubt. Remember, it's also about the investment you're making in your future and your career. It's normal to feel uncertain about the future, but try to focus on your goals and the steps you're taking to achie
No I haven't talked to anyone officially about it. My friends got their tuition paid by their parents so. Well, I guess I just feel like I'm supposed to be grateful that I even got to go to school even with debt. I don't know how repayment works yet and if I will be able to.
It's completely okay to feel this way, and you're not alone in these concerns. It's a big step, managing and understanding the repayment of student loans, especially when you're trying to figure it out on your own. You should definitely give yourself credit for pursuing your education and investing in your future, even if it comes with debt. Since you haven't had a chance to talk to anyone officially about it yet, reaching out to your school's financial aid office could be a really good step.
financial aid doesn't do anything, they just ask you to apply for fafsa which I did and look for scholarships which never gets anywhere. What scares me most is not knowing what my life is going to look like after. Like what if I graduate and can't find a job in my field and I'm stuck with this debt and nothing to show. The worst things is, I don't like my field right now.
It sounds like you're dealing with a lot of uncertainty and worry right now, and it's completely understandable to feel scared about the future, especially when things aren't going as you hoped or planned. Feeling disconnected from your field of study adds another layer of stress to the mix, which must be really challenging. The fear of not finding a job in your field after graduation is a common one, but there are always steps you can take to improve your situation. If you're feeling unsure ab
Didn't even know career counselors exists. It sounds like a good idea to talk to them but would they help me if they know i don't like my field? I feel like everyone around me expects me to be excited about graduating and I'm not. I'm scared and dreading it.
Absolutely, career counselors are there to help students and graduates with a wide range of concerns, including feelings of uncertainty or dissatisfaction with their field of study. They're trained to offer guidance and support regardless of where you're at in your educational or career journey. In fact, expressing your doubts and concerns about your field is an important step in finding a path that feels right for you, and a career counselor can play a crucial role in that process. Career coun
Maybe I need to just actually go talk to someone. I've been thinking about this and it's exhausting because it stresses me out so I put it away but it comes back. I don't have everything figured out and trust that life will happen and I will be able to handle it.
It sounds like you're really self-aware, and reaching out to talk to someone could be a very positive step. It's perfectly normal to feel exhausted by these thoughts and worries; they can be a heavy load to carry, especially on your own. Seeking support can help lighten that burden. It's okay not to have everything figured out. Life is a journey, and part of it is learning, growing, and adapting as we go. Trusting in your ability to handle what comes your way is a strong foundation to build on.