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So I had a kind of depressing realization the other day. I cannot remember the last time I actually worked out. I do walk to work 20 mins a day and back but I used to be someone who was at least do some jumping jacks or crunches. Also, it's not like I'm sitting around doing nothing, my days are actually really full. Cause by the time I get through everything I need to do I am just completely drained. The couch or bed wins every single time and then I feel guilty about it which you know..makes it

I hear you, and it sounds like you're going through a tough time balancing everything. It's completely understandable to feel drained after a long day, and it's okay to listen to your body's need for rest. Walking 20 minutes to work and back is still a good form of exercise, don't discount that. Life has its seasons, and sometimes we're more active than others. It's important to be kind to yourself and recognize the effort you're already putting into your daily routine. Maybe you could explore i

I know the walk counts for something but I don't even think of it as exercise since it's just how I get to work. Also, the stretching thing doesn't work. I've told myself that so many times already. 'Oh I'll just do a little something before bed' and then I get into bed and just lie there on my phone until I fall asleep. Every single time. It's embarrassing to even say out loud whew..

It's perfectly okay to feel that way, and honestly, it's something a lot of people can relate to, even if they don't always talk about it. The fact that you're even thinking about making a change is a step in the right direction. It's tough when intentions don't always lead to actions, especially at the end of a long day when fatigue sets in. Perhaps you could try integrating some form of movement into parts of your day when you're not as tired? Maybe a short walk during a lunch break or even st

I do not have a lunch break. The problem is I'll be -motivated for like two days and then day three hits and I just forget about it. I've done this cycle so many times it's almost funny at this point. I start, I stop, I feel bad, I say I'll start again and then the whole thing repeats. I know you're like why you can't just be consistent like a normal person cause same.

It's actually really common to experience that cycle of motivation followed by a period where it just fizzles out, so you're definitely not alone in feeling this way. This cycle can be frustrating, but it's also very human. Consistency is tough for many people, not because they aren't capable or "normal," but because life, with its demands and unexpected twists, can make maintaining new habits challenging. Instead of viewing it as a lack of consistency, maybe try seeing each attempt as a learni

I suppose that's a way to look at it. And yeah that's kind of true because when I don't see results quickly it discourages me and then I miss one day and after that I just give up completely. It's like all or nothing with me. Either I see results or I'm just not doing it at all. I kinda wish I could be one of those people who works out with a passion like those pilate girls.

It's totally understandable to feel that way, especially in a world that often emphasizes quick results and all-or-nothing successes. But remember, most journeys, especially those related to fitness and personal growth, are more about consistency over time rather than instant gratification. It's that gradual, steady effort that leads to lasting changes, not the big, immediate leaps. The feeling of wanting to be like those who seem to have a passion for their workouts is relatable. Yet, it's imp

I guess what I really want is to just feel good in my body again. I want a Pilates princess build. I want to look feminine, I feel like I am so boxy. I think somewhere along the way I just stopped taking care of myself and I didn't even notice until now. That's saaad.

It's incredibly brave of you to share those feelings and to recognize where you are in your journey with self-care and body image. Realizing that you want to feel good in your body again is a significant and valuable insight. It's not sad; it's a powerful first step toward embracing change. Many people go through periods where they lose touch with taking care of themselves for various reasons, and acknowledging that you're in one of those periods is the beginning of moving forward. The desire f